Is your relationship failing and the thought of your partner getting away from you haunting day and night? This probably can be due to lack of communication.
Do you know communication is a key ingredient in any interpersonal relationship. Without this a relationship will be purely mundane and will lose its charm. Remember physical intimacy does not work long term. Yes it’s a part of relationship and without an intimate relationship things do not work. But it is only and only COMMUNICATION (the capital letters sound like I am shouting, but I mean it) that keeps your relationship going. What more? If there is poor communication probably the intimacy bond can not be formed between two people.
It is only communication that creates understanding between two people. They have to be vocal and expressive. Expressing likes and dislikes, talking things out, building trust, discussing issues, tolerating little quirks, sharing feelings, sense of humor. All of this is acquired only through effective communication.
If you and your partner are not talking well there will be intense screaming matches, non stop squabbles and unnecessary arguments. Relationships can be very vulnerable sometimes.There are several reasons for the lack of communication. You are probably worked up after a long day or stressed out. Then many a times partners avoid a subject, tend to ignore each other.
Well, communication is a two way thing and it requires effort of both the sides. It wont happen on its own and needs a team work. Be a good listener and a good talker. Nurture your relationship by paying full attention. Slowly and slowly there will an emotional connection between two people. Many a times people try to win a conversation and that is why the
communication fails because there is no clicking between two people. One might be forcing himself/herself on the other person. You cannot try to convince your partner to see things their way. Rather stay calm and share your opinion and feelings with each other.
Be honest and not judgmental by assuming things. Be yourself and not fake in order to avoid misunderstandings. Nurture your relationship in such a way that both partners know what they want and need. Control your thoughts. Thoughts keep accumulating in your mind only because of lack of communication. These small things will make a huge difference eventually there is understanding and will boost your relationship forever.
Another important step in achieving good communication is introspection. It is very easy to put the blame on the other person. Be open to criticism and learn to see things from each others perspective.
Also, be their strength and not weakness. You should be the backbone of your partner. Do not let your partner down or snub him/her. Motivate your spouse and not let him/her down. If you don’t like something talk it out, watch out your tone. Do not nitpick at things rather be subtle.
So always keep this in mind communication is the stepping stone of healthy relationship or marriage. Thus save your relationship from going down the drain and be a happy and invincible couple.